Xander and Willow had one of the longest-running friendships in Buffy The Vampire Slayer but they weren't all that close.
One of the main hallmarks ofBuffy the Vampire Slayerwas the relationships. They helped keepa show about monsters and ghouls grounded. After moving to Sunnydale, Buffy woundup in a tight-knit group of friends. But Xander and Willow had a friendship before Buffy arrived.
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Of course no friendships are perfect, but it hardly seemedplausible that Willow and Xander had a foundation for friendship before Buffy arrived. There is no accounting for taste,but Willow and Xander's friendship wassuperficial at best. Here are ten reasons why Willow and Xander are bad for each other.
Without the threat of the world ending every week, it is hard to understand what Willow and Xander hadto talk about. It seemedthat Willow and Xander werethe antitheses of each other.
Willow could nothelp but be the smartest person in the room and Xander wasoften drawn into the thrall of monsters with no free will of his own. Only in an alternate universe where they were both evil did it seem they enjoyed each others company.
Since Buffy first moved to Sunnydale, Xander was transfixed. And while this did not appear to be a surprise to Willow, it certainly did hurt her. Willow had been in love with Xander since kindergarten and he never noticed her orgiven her the time of day.
While Xander could not be expected to help his feelings for Buffy, he certainly didnot care enough to understand Willows feelings. Or notice them at all.
Many things separated the core group in season four. Xander felt ostracized that he was not living on campus with Buffy and Willow. Buffygot many things right with this storyline.Friends often grow apart after going away to college.
Xander was living at home and working odd jobs while Buffy and Willow were still at school. Xander never wentback to school and it causeda massive rift that wasonly repaired when they fight The Initiative.
Xander and Willow may have known each other the longest, but that is not always a good thing. They often enabled each others bad behavior, causing conflict in their own lives.
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Thatis what led to the dissolution of their respective relationships in season three. Theyshared a couple of kisses and despite the guilt, Willow and Xanderdecided to hide their secret from Oz and Cordelia. Once their infidelities cameout, it ruinedboth of their relationships.
Xanders affection for Willow was platonic for a long time. But even through friendship, Xander never treated her fairly. This wasespecially evidentwhen Willow started dating Oz.
Xander was not supportive of the union, finding ways to dislike Oz even though the newcourtship was respectful. While Xanders protectiveness could be a mark of a friend, really it was just selfish that even if Xander didnt want her, he couldn't standanyone else having her.
Xander had no illusion about his life after high school. His only friends would be going to college, though not very far away. It was still shocking how he was treated. Whether it was intentional or not, Xander was often not prioritized.
Through his various jobs and continuing the relationshipwith an ex-demon, Xander seemed to become more and more irrelevant, even being delegated tasks such as looking after Spike.
Xander was often the subject of bad luck. No more so than when he was hit with a wand blast in season five by the demon Toth. This separated his lesser qualities from his greater ones. While the dysfunctional Xander was running around town missing out, his better half was taking advantage of his life.
Xander had to implore Willow that he was the true Xander, although both Xanders were part of the same whole. It took Willow some time to believe what Xander was telling her was true.
Willow always had a complicated relationship with Xanders girlfriends. That may have been more to do with Xanders taste than anything else, but she was never shy about sharing it. From bug ladies to mean girls, Xander's dating life was not always easy.
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But when Xander started going steady with ex-demon Anya, Willow not only did not approve of the union but could not respect the newly human Anya. Anya struggled with life as a mortal after 1,000 years of vengeance but still, Willow could not treat her like a person.
The mythology of Xander and Willow's friendship was often talked about. Friends since kindergarten, it seemed like a foundation for a strong relationship. But in Buffy, that still never seemed to ring true. It alwaysfeltlikeXander and Willow needed a third person in the group. The first one was Jesse, who unfortunately died during the pilot.
When Buffy went away from the summer, Willow and Xander struggled to make a cohesive unit. They often found themselves in awkward positions and longed for Buffy to return.
Without Willow, Xanders life would be much harder. That was the case in high school and many years following it. He had spent most of his adolescence using her for his gain, whether he realized it or not.
Willow had tried to tutor Xander in school and far beyond that. He also needed help in his personal life. He took her for granted and never thought about how much he needed her.
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Carolyn Jenkins is a voracious consumer of film and television. She has an MFA in Screenwriting and Producing and enjoys almost anything in the horror genre.
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